ABOUT ME
Hi, I'm Abby. I help women dismantle internalized barriers and rebuild their lives on their own terms.
Patriarchal expectations aren't my thing...
As an educator and advocate for women's empowerment and a former FairPlay facilitator, I guide women through the transformative journey of discovering their inherent worth and breaking free from societal limitations. With a deep understanding of how cultural conditioning shapes our beliefs, I help women dismantle internalized barriers and rebuild their lives on their own terms.
My approach combines personal experience with strategies to help women reclaim their power, raise their standards, and create lives that truly reflect their desires and values.
I believe every woman deserves to live authentically, free from the weight of patriarchal expectations.
I work to create a supportive space where women can explore their true potential, challenge limiting beliefs, and step into their fullest selves. Whether you're navigating relationships, career transitions, or personal growth, I'm here to guide you toward a life lived boldly and unapologetically for yourself.
The awakening hit me four years ago
I started talking about domestic life on social media. What I thought was normal – my husband and I sharing the load of running our home and raising our kids – turned out to be pretty rare. I discovered that so many women were drowning in an unfair split of household duties and childcare, often working a "second shift" at home even when they had full-time jobs.
The more stories I heard, the clearer the picture became:
This wasn't just about chore charts or time management. This was about deep-rooted systems designed to keep women overwhelmed and undervalued. I saw how we're taught from day one that our worth comes from being the perfect wife and mother, that we should be grateful for any help at home, that this exhausting juggle is just "what women do."
But here's what fires me up: it doesn't have to be this way. After nearly 12 years of marriage and four years of working intimately with women in this space, I've seen firsthand how transformative it is when women realize they can expect – and deserve – more. When they understand that partnership shouldn't mean sacrifice, and that being a wife or mother doesn't mean losing yourself.
I've spent thousands of hours listening to women's stories, holding space for their frustrations, and celebrating their breakthroughs. Every story has taught me something new about the challenges women face and the incredible strength they possess. Through my own marriage journey and the collective wisdom of the women I've worked with (and the men in my comments and DMs), I've gathered insights and strategies that actually work in the real world – not just in theory.
This is why I'm passionate about creating a safe haven where your experiences are honored and your feelings are validated
Here, you won't be dismissed as "too demanding" for wanting true partnership. Your standards aren't "too high" – they're a reflection of your self-worth. Whether you're seeking a genuine partnership or learning to thrive despite a challenging marriage, you'll find understanding and support.
You're not alone in this journey. Your experiences are real, your feelings are valid, and your desires for more are completely legitimate. Let's work together to transform your relationship with yourself and create the life you truly deserve.
I'm on a mission
Are you feeling on the fence about working through this? Please don't hesitate to contact me. I would love to chat and help you decide on your next step to happiness.
CONTACT ME
You are enough. You deserve happiness. And it’s never too late to rewrite your story.
I'm all about
Shared chores. Shared child care. Empathetic & emotionally mature men.
I'm not about
Women shouldering 2.6x more domestic labor than men - on top of their careers, emotional labor and child caring.
Wellbeing today, Freedom Tomorrow
AN EBOOK to nurture your wellbeing while creating possibilities for tomorrow.
You are not alone on this journey. In my years of working with women in similar situations, I've met countless individuals who find themselves deeply unhappy in their marriages yet unable to leave for various financial, family, or personal reasons.
This e-book offers practical strategies for preparing for possible future transitions. My intention is to provide you with tools that help you reclaim parts of yourself that may have become lost along the way—whether you ultimately choose to stay or eventually decide to leave.
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The liberation checklist a practical guide
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